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Making Time For Joy

2/15/2020

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Author: Diana Gordon, Psy.D.

Our patients come to us with a wide range of concerns, but one thing that many people we see have in common is that most of us want to feel happier. We want to experience more joy and contentment in our day to day lives. Sometimes psychiatric symptoms such as depression or anxiety can make it difficult for people to engage in the activities that help them feel relaxed and happy.

We all have busy lives, and making time for fun can be really challenging. What do you think about when you first think about making more time for activities that you enjoy? Many of our patients have a lot of good reasons for having difficulty making time in their schedules, including:
  • Long work days with limited breaks
  • Caring for relatives such as young children or aging parents
  • Not knowing what activities they really enjoy
  • Not having the energy to engage in fun activities
  • Not feeling like they deserve to take time away from day to day life for pleasure, joy, or fun

For these and many more reasons, many of our patients report that there are many days where they don’t engage in activities that bring them joy. When we start working with someone experiencing mood challenges, one of the first suggestions we will make is to set aside time every day to do something pleasurable. This doesn’t need to be a lot of time; there are many small things you can do over the course of the day that are fun and can bring you joy. Some examples might include:
  • Taking a walk on your lunch break
  • Stopping for a special coffee or treat on your way to the office
  • Watching an episode of your favorite TV show after work
  • Reading a chapter of a book you’re enjoying during a break in your day
  • Calling a friend to chat during your commute home
  • Listening to an audio book or a podcast while running an errand that would otherwise be tedious

We encourage our clients to make time each day for at least one activity that truly makes them happy. We find that when people make time for joy, they experience a reduction in stress, anxiety, and depression. We work together with our patients to identify the activities that really bring them joy, and to problem-solve barriers to fitting these into their day to day lives. If you’re struggling to feel happy, try implementing this practice in your day to day life and notice how it impacts your mood. And feel free to reach out to us for a free phone consultation to learn more about evidence-based skills for managing depression and anxiety.
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2/21/2020 10:03:36 pm

It has been scientifically proven that being happy lengthens our lives. That’s why we should always choose to be happy no matter how hard life can be! No matter how busy we are, we should always make time for joy; the one our hearts is searching. Yes, life can get busy and we may have a lot of tasks to fulfill, but having a solid fun should be part of your daily routine. We should never allow ourselves to get drowned on earthly stuff because those things wouldn’t matter at the end. We should prioritize the idea of making ourselves happy!

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    Diana Gordon, Psy.D., Kari Kagan Psy.D., and Katie Leoni, Psy.D.

    Drs. Gordon, Kagan, and Leoni practice psychotherapy primarily via telehealth. Their areas of expertise include anxiety, sleep, stress, depression, maternal mental health, and addiction. They blog about these topics to provide research-based information about common problems and strategies to help manage them.  

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  • About Us
    • Dr. Diana Gordon
    • Dr. Kari Kagan
    • Dr. Katie Leoni
  • Services
    • What we treat
    • Supervision, Consultation, Training, and Workshops
    • Online/Live Video Psychotherapy (Teletherapy)
  • What is CBT?
    • Other Evidence-Based Psychotherapies
  • Policies and Forms
    • Course of Treatment
  • Contact
  • Location
  • Blog